I do not know a site but I do know a book which is excellent:
http://www.amazon.com/Design-Patterns-Ruby-Addison-Wesley-Professional/dp/0321490452/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1215019949&sr=1-1
Hope this helps.
Bharat
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